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The pressure of defining my status

Posted by: Lynsey Hunter on: April 23, 2009

Facebook and Twitter have hit our staff room.  Big time.  And though I try to pretend that I don’t get involved, it’s all lies.  I was touched today to be told by some of my colleagues that my status updates on Facebook are apparently ‘amusing’ and ‘clever’.  It was quite ridiculous just how pleased that made me!  It is a comical illustration of just how great the extent of being bothered about what other people think about me is in my life!  And for a few minutes, it really brightened up what had been quite a difficult day.  And then it dawned on me that I’m going to have to work hard to maintain this now.  Not that I’ve really thought about it before.  But now, I will have to.  And one thing I do know about myself is that when I try to be funny, I can’t do it (Jingle will testify to that!)  So whilst juggling all my other spinning plates trying to live up to the various other ’statuses’ in my life and do them justice to my stupidly high and unattainable standards (perfect wife, supermum, best Christian ever, non-geeky crafter, world’s best listmaker etc) I have now turned what started out as harmless fun that required no thought into yet another quest for perfection in the eyes of others!  Agh!  There’s only one thing for it…a list!  A list of amusing status updates to which I can turn when Facebooking!!  And maybe I could colour code them according to general mood… ooh and then get people to score them for their comic appeal!!  Suddenly, I understand the closeness of comedy and tragedy…on so many levels…

A momentous day

Posted by: Lynsey Hunter on: April 20, 2009

Today has felt like a day of milestones!  Two very simple things, both involving money and shopping, but both in my mind significant symbols of Sam growing up (too quickly in my opinion!):  his first shoes and a new, front facing car seat.  It made me feel quite emotional, and not just because the shoe shop was packed again, even though the holidays have finished!  He is growing so quickly, and stages seem to be whizzing by.  He has such a sparkly personality, and is incredibly active – now he’s crawling at lightning speed, and has just started to pull himself up and take little steps along the furniture.  Agh!  Time seems to speed along ever quicker as I get older, and I feel like it becomes ever more important to treasure as many moments as possible, not just with Sam, but in life in general.  The problem I’ve found is that as my need to remember and treasure grows, so my memory’s capacity to remember seems to get worse! That is the illustration of cruelty in my opinion!  And so my need to write, photograph and scrapbook grows.  The ultimate in aides memoire!  I now just need to remember to write, photograph and scrapbook.  Hmmm…

Now That’s What I Call Lynsey, Volume 1

Posted by: Lynsey Hunter on: April 13, 2009

I’m loving Spotify at the moment.  If you haven’t heard of it, it’s a music streaming application which allows you to listen to music for free on your PC.  I’m loving it because it allows me to listen to all kinds of music from lots of genres (which I can match to my ever fluctuating moods!) and find all sorts of weird and wonderful blasts from the past without having to actually own the CDs.  (An additional bonus is the comedy tracks that it keeps recommending for James based on the playlists he’s been creating…)   In a similar vein to all the things Facebook, where you to write 20 random things about yourself, or describe your life in 30 books you’ve read – all of which I sadly admit I love – I’ve decided to create a playlist called ‘My Story in Songs’ on which I’m putting songs which remind me of specific memories, people or times in my life, both good and not so good (both the memories and the music!) I’m loving it – obviously, it’s a list based exercise!!  Music is such a key part of my life, and the emotions it stirs in me are so powerful and varied, it is proving a really enjoyable and cathartic experience.  It has also involved much laughter and reminded me of so many important times in my life.  It’s going to take a while to complete, but there’s no rush. One of my more valuable wacky list-based ideas, I think!

Random Resolutions

Posted by: Lynsey Hunter on: April 12, 2009

Happy Easter, everyone! I love Easter and everything about it.  Our church service always has a real party feel to it,  the signs of spring are all around in nature, and obviously, Creme Eggs play a vital part in day to day life! Besides being a celebration of the greatest day in history, it always feels like there’s a real sense of new life and freshness about everything at Easter, and I often feel more like making resolutions now than I do in January when tradition tells me that I should.  I read about a mission that my friend, Bek, is involved in at the moment, in which she takes hot drinks to people selling The Big Issue in town on a Saturday morning, and on her blog, she talks about the way in which it is often through small acts that big things begin to happen.  It reminded me of the way in which there was a sudden surge of publicity about ‘Random Acts of Kindness’ a while ago, where people performed small acts of ’unexpected’ kindness, often for strangers, just to share love and positivity. One of my favourites was people at toll bridges paying for the people in the car behind even though they were strangers.  Imagine their surprise when they got to the booth, and were told they had already been paid for!  The idea was not to get a major reaction, but simply to share kindness.  Not enough of this goes on in the world today.  In our cell group, we also talked about how it is often in the smaller, practical acts you do for people, that the greatest love is often shown.  And so, putting all this together, I have decided that this year, I am going to ignore the January resolution trend (which is a good job, because this year it involved getting fit, and I abandonded it before January was out!) and go with my heart, which feels that Easter is all about new life and fresh starts.  My resolution is to do something kind (and random, which for a planning freak like me is the harder part) every day. I think I will start with small things within my comfort zone, but hope that as the days go on, I will feel brave enough to step out either in the task, or in the person that I choose to be on the receiving end.  Why don’t you all join me?  Who knows what we can achieve!

A lovely day

Posted by: Lynsey Hunter on: April 10, 2009

Today was a really lovely day.  It was the first time since our gorgeous little boy arrived nearly 8 months ago, that James and I have spent proper time on our own.  It is the only time that we have both been off work and been Mr Snuffles-less. Sam went to Grandma’s and, as always, had a great time, whilst we went out for lunch, mooched around the shops and had coffee.  Once I got over the feeling that I must be a horrible mother by enjoying a few hours without Sam, I relaxed and remembered that as well as being a mummy and a headteacher, I am also a wife.  And I have a husband.  And we chatted about things other than Sam.  Most importantly, though, the time we did have back together as the Three Musketeers at the end of the day, was perfect.   Lovely day complete.

A wise woman said that a wise man said…

Posted by: Lynsey Hunter on: April 9, 2009

Through the wonders of modern technology, I have just managed to get back in touch with an old friend of mine, and have spent time reading the message she sent me, along with her blog and her Facebook page.  I am so glad to be back in touch with her as we had so much in common once upon a time, and reading her thoughts, it would appear that this still remains the same.  However, I have to admit, that whilst reading her blog and enjoying the familiarity of her inner thoughts, I simultaneously felt pangs of guilt over you, my poor, neglected, little blog, and have now vowed that I really must try and find the time to write more.  The wise woman with whom I am now back in touch quotes Charles Buxton saying, “You will never find time for anything.  If you want time, you must make it.”  So that is my mission.  Making just a little time.  Just for the little things.

New Arrivals

Posted by: Lynsey Hunter on: February 19, 2009

We just wanted to share our exciting family news as we have had two more new arrivals in the past week.  James’s sister and her husband are the very proud parents of Molly Isabella, who surprised us all by arriving early at a very healthy 6lb 9oz!  She is absolutely gorgeous, and is Sam’s first cousin and our first niece, so we are looking forward to getting to know her really well! Well done Lucy for all the hard work!!!

We are also celebrating the arrival of James’s cousin Anna and her husband Christian’s third baby, Eliza Grace, who also arrived safely this week, and who is being well looked after by her big brother, Charlie and big sister, Sophia. 

Our family get-togethers are going to be even more fun now!  So many blessings in such a short time: what a year we’ve all had!

Bloggertition: what a fabulous word!

Posted by: Lynsey Hunter on: February 19, 2009

I have just made a public apology to my friend Andy on his website, for my failure to submit my entry in the Snowman Bloggertition, which was a cross blog competition to publish the best picture of a snowman created in the recent wintry weather.  Sadly, I did not get my snowman even started, never mind finished, and thus had to declare Andy the winner (very unlike me I know!). However, I had forgotten about the actual word created in honour of this competition:  bloggertition.  I think this is a fabulous word, and as those of you who know me well are aware, I am a total word geek with a penchant for certain words.  Some of my favourites are spatula, kaleidoscope, moist, gazebo and bazooka.    So, my question for you all today is, ‘What are your favourite words?’

CHRISTmas Rant – PCness gone mad!

Posted by: Lynsey Hunter on: December 12, 2008

I have just read an article in my dad’s paper about a school choir being asked to withdraw from a Christmas music festival because the songs they had picked were “too religious” -  unbelievable! How can anything connected with Christmas be TOO religious? That’s the whole point of the flipping celebration isn’t it, or am I going mad?  Things like this drive me absolutely wappy!  Sorry, just felt I had to rant.

Christmas traditions

Posted by: Lynsey Hunter on: December 4, 2008

I have been thinking about what kind of festive traditions James and I can start as a family when Sam begins to get older and become more aware of what’s going on.  Does anyone have any good ideas of things we could do?  Current suggestions include buying new pyjamas for Christmas Eve, watching a Christmas film at a certain point in the days leading up to Christmas and buying a new decoration each year.  Answers on a postcard please! (Alternatively, you can just leave a comment on here!!!) Sensible, sweet or silly are all acceptable!

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